Some of the greatest sermons we will ever hear are not preached from a pulpit; they are lived out in front of us every day. Many of us were blessed to have mothers who didn’t just talk about faith; they taught it, modeled it, and expected us to live it. Many of you knew and had a relationship with my mother, the late Reverend Dr. Evelyn Gelzer Stevens. My mother taught me spiritual and life lessons that still preach today.
Because she understood that a life without prayer is a life without power, Momma would say, “Always pray, and give God some of your time.” The Bible tells us in 1 Thessalonians 5:17, ESV: “Pray without ceasing.” Prayer is not optional; it is necessary. She also taught me to support the church, not just with my presence, but financially and faithfully. Further, she made it clear; “don’t be a benchwarmer”! God didn’t save us to sit; He saved us to serve.
Momma believed strongly in treating people right. She would say, “Treat people the way you want to be treated, and be respectful, especially to your elders.” That lines up perfectly with Luke 6:31, ESV: “As you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.” She also reminded me, “Don’t look down on anybody, and don’t go around acting stuck up.” In other words, stay humble.
She didn’t tolerate dishonesty or ingratitude either. “Don’t be ungrateful, and don’t tell lies.” Those were not suggestions; they were expectations. When it came to family, Momma was very clear: “Be there for your family. Take care of your children. Don’t let anyone come between you and your husband.” Further, she added something that could solve a whole lot of problems today: “Don’t interfere in married people’s business!”
Now Momma had a little humor mixed in with her wisdom. She would say, “When somebody wants to argue with you, just start singing one of those good ol’ church songs.” In other words, don’t let foolishness pull you out of your character. Sometimes peace is found in walking away or singing your way through it! Nevertheless, she also prepared me for life’s difficult moments. She said, “Sometimes you will have to drink tears for water.” Life will bring pain, disappointment, and heartache. Even then, God is still faithful.
She taught me to take care of myself, keep myself clean, and carry myself with dignity. Momma warned me not to be constantly in and out of people’s houses, because everybody’s business is not yours. One thing she emphasized, almost as if it were a commandment, was this: “BE ON TIME!” Being late doesn’t just waste time; it shows a lack of respect.
All of these lessons may sound simple, but they are deeply spiritual. They shape how we live, how we treat others, and how we honor God. To this day, I am still trying to perfect some of Momma’s lessons, but I’m getting there. Always abound in the faith, and never leave home without Him!
